Are you the type that has considered sexual KINK or BDSM kink during your intimate love sessions? If so like many of us, we learned to explore what we like and curated our own ultimate BDSM toys collection. 

Although there are myths that surround common bondage toys and types of kink that are considered weird or abnormal when in actuality, it is quite simple. 

Getting KINKY!

The term kink refers to anything sexual or arousing to a person, outside of your basic vanilla sex. The level of KINK can differ on a person or couple and how they view types of KINK with BDSM toys.

In a similar way KINK is tied into fetish and BDSM since the real basis of these sexual kinks started with fantasies, they are usually something we like to explore. Fetish is very similar to KINK however, a fetish is more of a “must have” in order to orgasm and be sexually satisfied. 

Since BDSM is a part of the KINK and FETISH desires, it breaks down into several sub-categories which are; bondage and discipline, domination and submission, and of course sadism and masochism. Each and every one of these sexual desires are a part of KINK play. 

Get the Kinks Out!  

There are different types of kinks and fetishes when exploring BDSM that allow you to customize how you like to give or receive pleasure. In order to exceed your KINK sessions you can use BDSM sex toys, bondage sex toys, and other styles of BDSM equipment which will excite your senses while you play. 

Our sex shop has many BDSM sex toys that range from simple BDSM handcuffs for beginners, to kinky sex toys for intermediate players, and of course all-in-one bondage and fetish kits for eager advanced BDSM players alike. 

Today Cupid Boutique wants to share with you some of the top 50 kinks, fetishes and BDSM acts, plus guide you through the most popular kinky sex toys that can heighten your sexual kink plays.

Get KINKY with it!

Here are some amazing KINK scenarios and popular BDSM toys that you can use to explore, in order to satisfy your sexual KINK cravings;

Role playing/Reverse role play kink:
These types of scenarios consist of two or more people who are willing to portray a character (either real or fantasy), or the opposite gender/role in the relationship. 

You can add sexy lingerie and costumes that give an appearance of an alter ego such as a maid teaser dress, or a schoolgirl outfit if your kink has anything to do with innocents. 

Other scenarios of role play consist of reverse role playing which is where a female will take the role of the male and vice versa likewise of a “sub vs dom” act. In this scenario, KINK toys such as a pegging strap-on can do wonders to exceed strap-on play between partners. Don’t hesitate to invest in a bondage kit which contains tons of goodies that can boost your fantasy kink play.

Temperature play kink:
Although quite a simple process, this KINK act is really all about arousal with different temperatures and how they react to the skin’s surface. When you use silicone sex toys, glass sex toys, or metal/stainless steel toys can deeply explore temperature play kink. These kinky sex toys can be heated or cooled to different temperature settings in order to stimulate kinky sensations either internally or externally.

Sight restriction kink:
With sight restriction play, one partner shall bind the other partner with a piece of fabric that can fully restrict eyesight for their partner while they indulge in sensual play. You have a few options in the BDSM sex toy category which you can use to heighten this experience.  

You can use an adjustable blindfold that provides a black-out style of coverage and leaves them in total darkness. You can also choose a full coverage hood which leaves a bit of visual room, but still hard to see all details. Or you can also choose an elastic-style satin mask kit for those who are new to these sensations. 

Sensation play kink:
This kinky sex act goes right along with blindfolding your mate. During intimate play time, it is essential for the body to receive pleasure both externally and internally. Using BDSM toys such as feather ticklers can boost sensation play to a whole new level.  

Other delectable sensations can be delivered using kink toys like floggers, crops or whips that can provide a sting and tickle sensation that also plays a big role in pain versus pleasure scenarios. 

Objectification Kink:
This kink play scenario consists of one or more persons who wish to be aroused by erotic humiliation. Although this kink scenario isn’t for everyone, there are some who deeply crave these sexual kink sensations on a regular basis. 

If you are into this sort of kinky play, you can add BDSM toys such as; leashes and collars, ball gags, whips and floggers, and don’t forget the paddles when they aren’t being obedient!

Dominant vs Submissive kink:
Ah, the crème du la crème of bondage sex toys and fetish play! This KINK act consists of a dominant partner and a submissive partner. The combination of the two is very exhilarating for some. Since the popular book series 50 shades of grey, this act of powerful sex took the world by storm. 

If you are into dominant and submissive acts, I encourage you to invest in amazing bondage sex toys such as a set of under-the-bed restraints, over the door swing, or a sex swing. You can literally turn your bedroom into an amazing bondage playground in a few simple steps.

Add other kinky sex toys such as a glow-in-the-dark body harness, blinders, hogties, o-ring gags, sex machines and other BDSM toys to heat the session up even further.

Voyeurism kink:
Since voyeurism is an act of watching sexual activities in order to be aroused. This act can include some very versatile kinky sex toys to play with while you watch. 

If you are a penis owner who loves to stroke yourself while watching, you can invest in a handheld pocket pussy, an automatic stroker, or a realistic masturbator to act out your fantasies as you watch. 

If you like vaginal penetration or clitoral stimulation while you enjoy your views, investing in a vibrator, a wand massager or a dildo would definitely heighten your satisfaction while you watch.

Another great kink sex toy to invest in if you and your partner agree that you can watch but can’t touch, you can choose a cock cage which allows you to build up the anticipation but not to release, and your key holder is the only one giving or getting your pleasure.

Hot Wax Kink:
This kinky sex act requires some handy wax work with a bondage candle or a hot wax candle that is specified for skin without damaging it during play. You can also substitute a hot wax candle with a massage candle which gives more benefits to the skin even after play. 

Cock and ball torture kink:
Cock and ball torture consists of conflicting pain in the scrotum, or adding pressure to the penile gland to make it slightly painful. Using a ball spreader, or erection rings can enhance cock and ball torture and provide outstanding releases, which results in over-the-top pleasure and truly invigorating ejaculations.  

Shibari rope binding kink:
This practice of kink consists of a Shibari master and his student indulging in rope tying which is mostly done for arousal and visual satisfaction.

This process requires a Master with exquisite knowledge of how to bind the full body. Although it plays a fine line between pain and pleasure you can indulge in Shibari using BDSM sex toys like bondage rope, bondage tape and tether bindings of your choice. 

FAQs about KINK and BDSM sex toys!

What do I do if I want to explore BDSM but don’t know what toys to get?

You can invest in a bondage kit that best suits the kink you want to explore.

What types of sex toys should I look for if I like sensation play?

You can look for feather ticklers, floggers, whips or paddles to indulge in sensation play.

What types of sex toys can I use for my temperature play kink?

You can try a silicone sex toy, a glass sex toy or a metal/steel sex toy to indulge in temperature play.

I want to explore Shibari rope tying with my partner, what can I use?

If you want to explore Shibari rope tying, you can invest in bondage rope for the best practice.

What is the easiest way to turn your bed into a bondage play area? 

If you invest in an under-the-bed restraint system, you will be pleased with how easy it is to set up.