If you’re reading this, you probably love sex. But I used to feel like an alien because I didn’t find it as pleasing or enjoyable as I thought I should. It’s not like I wasn’t emotionally attached to my boyfriend, but for some reason, I simply didn’t enjoy it.
We tried different techniques, different lubes, different sex positions, but orgasm seemed like a distant-fetched dream. While we tried not to let it affect our relationship, I was definitely feeling low.
So I consulted a sex therapist online who suggested using oral sex stimulators during foreplay or masturbation. Initially, the idea of using sex toys seemed strange and intimidating.
Thankfully, I decided to give them a try and guess what: three orgasms in a row! The experience was out of this world and there’s been no looking back since.
Today, I’m going to share my encounters with three amazing oral stimulators. (No, I didn’t buy them all at once!) Keep in mind: if you’re someone like me who struggles to attain orgasm, these toys are a blessing.
Lelo Ora 2 Insignia
The Lelo Ora 2 Insignia felt like a dream in the palm of my hand. It not only has a large, rotating nub beneath its smooth, body-safe silicone body but also features unique SenseTouch Technology. Simply switch to this setting and the SenseTouch will activate on contact.
With its long seductive swirls and intense pulses on and around my clitoris, I was trembling (in a good way) for minutes. There are 10 patterns of rotation and vibration, and two rotation speeds – full circle (called ‘Seductive Swirls’) and the half-circle rotation (called ‘Fast Flicks’). The swirl was a bit loud, but I didn’t care, I was so lost in the moment. The device is USB-rechargeable, 100% waterproof, and offers one hour of enjoyment with 90-day standby.
Featuring a bright textured pink tongue at one end and a smooth curve at the other, this luscious purple silicone vibe is my personal favourite. I positioned the oval cone over my labia and clitoris, and pressed the suction power button. Then I pressed the tongue power button and slowly cycled through its seven swirling patterns.
There are two suction attachments for versatile sensation play, and you can choose between three speeds and four patterns of flicking and licking motion. Honestly, oral sex stimulation couldn’t have been better than this!
Aside from the labia and clitoris, I also enjoyed the flicking and sucking sensation against my nipples. I’ve even flipped the toy and inserted it for powerful G-spot vibrations. There are three vibrating speeds and seven pulsating patterns to choose from. T
Ultimate Pleasure is USB rechargeable and powers up at any free USB port via an included magnetic cord.
Satisfyer Pro 2
I thought it looked like one of those sonic face scrubbers and didn't know why someone would use it, but, boy, was I wrong… and how.
Featuring a rose gold body and sleek handle, this suction vibrator uses targeted pulses of air to simulate an oral suction feeling on the clitoris, without direct contact. This didn’t just give me orgasms; I turned out to be a squirter! While I can’t promise that the Satisfyer will do the same for you (everybody is different), I can definitely promise mind-blowing orgasms.
The Satisfyer Pro 2’s ‘whisper’ setting means it’s very quiet on its lowest speed. The noise does increase with higher speeds, but it’s more of a barely noticeable low rumble. It comes fully charged and you’ll get about 90 minutes of playtime with it until the battery needs recharging (via USB lead).
For someone like me who struggled to orgasm and didn’t know much about oral sex, these toys were a boon. While there are thousands of other vibrators available, these are perfect for beginners. Choose one (or more!) of the above-mentioned oral stimulators to enjoy unprecedented sexual pleasure. And don’t forget to thank me later!