Playing BDSM with App-Controlled Toys: What to Look for?
Tips from Experienced Players.
Have you ever heard of Long Distance Sex Toys? Remote Vibrators? Or even better BDSM Play? Allow me to elaborate some feel good pointers to help you get more comfortable with these terms. In this blog we are going to discuss some details about BDSM play, Wireless Vibrators, and Remote Masturbators. Sounds like fun doesn’t it? Well, let‘s get into the nitty gritty and find out what all the HUSH is all about! We will also discuss the best long distance relationship toys and how to get the best usage out of them!
What Is BDSM?
BDSM is a form of sexual play between two partners that want to melt the barriers between them. Indulging in BDSM adventures allows you to remove inhibitions and develop other ways of communication between you and your partner.
Since it is all about being a dominant or a submissive type, these plays consist of open communication, adoration and above all TRUST! So just how does one go about getting involved with these BDSM Adventures you may ask? It’s really quite simple, but there are some really appealing kits, and accessories that can help with the experience regardless if you are a first time explorer or a dominatrix playing with her delightful subs!
Most BDSM Players know that it takes time and creativity to play. In order to understand more about BDSM, like how to get started? Or what are some signature moves? You can invest some time prior to your first experience and look for things that help you understand more.
You can join a BDSM chat group, take a look at a BDSM library (these have correct terms for positions and accessories that can be used). There are also some outfits designed for BDSM lingerie. I learned how to suit up the bed by watching a BDSM bed binding video for beginners! I couldn’t believe how easy it was!
There are some interesting blogs and videos out there that also discuss teen BDSM if you are into that sort of stuff. You can also record your sessions and make BDSM gif that you can send to your partner to spice up the moment.
Can I use Remote Sex Toys While Engaging in BDSM Play?
Yes! Absolutely, there are some good BDSM toys regardless if your partner is near or far. You will notice lately there are far more remote and app connected toys that help partners near or far to keep in touch sexually.
Remote Controlled Vibrator
These are vibrators that have two or more ways to play either solo or partnered. There are remote controlled panties that have a discreet bullet where you can place snug in the panties or insert for hands-free pleasure.
They usually have up to a 32 foot range so they have to be within the radius to play. However there are many different types of remote controlled vibrators available that include butt plugs, clitoral stimulators, vibrating dongs/dildos, and rabbit or g-spot.
These vibrators can be used alone or with the remote for hands-free play or kinky play between partners during outings, around the house for fun, or to spice up your nights of pleasure! Most of these are waterproof and can be played with in and around the water or if you happen to squirt (see what is squirt made off) it is ok, it will not ruin the toys or remotes.
Remote Masturbator
These are similar to the remote controlled vibrators, except they are designed for male pleasure. This allows you to be in the same vicinity as your partner and allows you to both play hands-free and is a great foreplay starter. These masturbators can come in simple non-sexual looking appearance, or they can be as realistic as the actual counterparts. Allowing you to play with a partner and a remote masturbator brings a whole new level of visual pleasure.
Remote Controlled Sex Machines
There are even remote controlled couple’s sex machines. If you are really into freaky play, there are machines on the market that are set up for couples to play in an unordinary way. For example; The Fetish Fantasy Couples’ Sex Machine is one complete system for couples to play. It gives you everything you need for a fantasy night between couples who really like to turn up the heat!
Bondage and Fetish Toys come in a wide range of use. These items can come individually sold so you can pick and choose what you like, or they come in complete sets so you can use a bit of everything and explore even further. Most sets come with all you need for the adventure, such as wrist or ankle cuffs, BDSM collar and leash, hoods, masks, bed bindings, whips, floggers, shock therapy or bondage rope for shibari role play. Don’t be afraid to add any remote controlled pleasure toys to your BDSM play time as it will just add to the excitement.
App Controlled Sex Toys
I am sure you have heard about the we vibe jive vs the lovense lush comparison review, both of these in my opinion are great for couples who love to play either near or far. They are blue tooth compatible and have an app specially formulated by the manufacturer to accompany the sex toy and allow you to add your partner by a code so that you and them can privately have virtual sex talk. (wink, wink)
Long Distance Relationship Freakiness!
Now let’s say that you and your partner are not in the same household, or in the same country for that matter. How would one go about keeping it spicy in the relationship while they are so far away? The newest innovations in sex toys for couples are app controlled toys!
App Controlled Vibrator
These stunning vibrating enhancements can be connected to your smart phone by the manufacturer’s app. You and your partner both connect and using the smart phone as a remote, you can choose the functions, speeds and vibrations to get her off (while you watch). The We-Vibe Gala would be a great example.
App Controlled Masturbator
These male enhanced vibrating toys can be connected to your smart phone by the manufacturer’s app. You and your partner both connect and using the smart phone as a remote, you can choose the functions, speed and vibrations to get him off (while you watch). The LELO Blow Me Cup would be a perfect way to start.
Overall, my opinion and ratings have shown that the best vibrators for long distance relationships should have an app that you two can connect privately (instead of whatsapp) to tease, please and play! They also sync to your favorite playlist for endless fun! You can find out more about Sex Toys and How to incorporate them into your life by reading some of our other blogs.
