Role Play with BDSM Sex Toys

Have you ever wanted to try some erotic roleplay? Maybe you have fantasized about it but have not yet taken that erotic approach.

Starting erotic roleplay is something most people often think about but don’t clearly know how to get started with these BDSM role play erotica. 

Erotic Roleplay by Definition

But what is the definition of roleplay? When two or more people indulge in a fantasized role that they can act out with their partner, these roles can portray a dominance shift between the couple. Therefore, one is the “top” or dominant one, while the other is the “bottom” or submissive one. 

For a couple to indulge in bondage play such as sexy role play, dirty role play, or sexual slavery BDSM acts, they must set ground rules prior to sexual roleplay. These rules must be abided by to maintain a respectful play scenario that leaves both partners satisfied and happy. 

Sex Toy Store Cupid Boutique carries over 15,000 sexual pleasure products that can help you plan, create, and indulge in any roleplay erotic session you desire. From sexy role play costumes to lingerie and bondage kits, sex swings, and restraint systems, we have you covered. 

There are several scenarios you can re-enact to create your own erotic role playing acts. Below are some detailed acts that you can try with your partner to spark the BDSM role play sex games;

6 Erotic Roleplay Ideas:

Naughty Nurse and Patient: This scenario requires one partner to dress up in either a doctor or nurse costume, and tend to the patient in this role reversal scene. Using a sexual spreader bar, sexual bondage straps, and restraints can really create a full BDSM scene. There are bondage sets that you can get, like this OUCH! Nurse Bondage Kit that has nurse-themed decorations and decals throughout. Add some sex toys like a vibrator, clitoral stimulator, or a dildo to the mix, and your possibilities are endless. 

Cop verses Criminal; We all like a good roleplay erotic scene where there’s a good guy and a bad girl. Playing reverse role play is like a walk in the park. One partner chooses to erotically roleplay as a naughty cop or a naughty criminal and pleads with the fifth to get what they want. Dress up in police costumes, use handcuffs, wrist cuffs, and other bedroom restraints so you can act out your erotic roleplay scenario whenever you please. 

Master and his slave: This classic dominant versus submissive (s and m) act is where most erotic roleplay scenarios start. This BDSM act requires obedience and resistance play, which enables the dominant partner to take total lead over the submissive partner. The submissive partner may wear sexy leather lingerie or nipple clamps as a part of the erotic roleplay scenario but there are demands that require their subjects to be completely naked. You can always add BDSM accessories like Whips & Paddles, Collars & Leashes or an under bed restraints system for a full spectrum bondage scene. 

The homeowner and his sexy maid: Everyone loves a sexy maid who is willing to do whatever is on command. In this BDSM roleplay erotic scenario, one partner can dress up as a seductive maid, while the other pretends to be the client she’s cleaning for, and has a lust for maids. If you have a maid outfit or some lingerie that is similar to the maid costume, you can also try some feather ticklers, spanking paddles, ball gags, and position aids to provide resistance training during erotic roleplaying with no touching. 

Now, if you're in a public place, this BDSM scenario roleplay erotic game can get pretty hot and heavy. One partner plays a powerful CEO of his own world while the other just wants to dominate his secretary as she is always eager to please. Dress in a sexy playsuit lingerie outfit with a trench coat and don’t forget the handcuffs, nipple clips, and couple’s cock ring for hot and heavy resistance play. Try a bondage set up like this Fetish Fantasy Ultimate Bondage Kit, which has all you need for instant roleplay erotic.

Teacher vs. Student Discipline Role Play: Although this scenario does not have to be erotic, it can simply be for visual effect. Cupid Boutique offers a great selection of bondage sex toys that would really spice up the roleplay erotic scenario. Naturally, a schoolgirl costume or lingerie outfit would be a great way to play out the visual aspects, but you can also add a bondage whip, nipple pinchers, or a sexy swing to the game plan, so your options are totally endless. 

Simple BDSM kits can give you many options during your erotic roleplay. The under the bed bondage restraints set is a very versatile way to enhance bed restraint positions while you watch role play sex videos during sexual play.

Don’t forget that nipple bondage is something that is important as well. Not only is it an erotic visual, but it plays a big role in nipple stimulation and breast health. Use a set of soft nipple clamps like these Nipple suckers that are easy to manipulate for all over-body pleasure.

FAQ’s About Erotic Roleplay 

Are you able to engage in erotic roleplay without sex toys?

Yes, absolutely. However, you can always take your erotic roleplay to a different level with sex toys. 

Are there rules for erotic roleplay? 

Each player decides their own rules prior to indulging in erotic roleplay. 

How do I ask my partner about erotic roleplaying?

You can start off by asking questions and having a healthy conversation to determine how they feel. 

Should you dress up in costumes for erotic roleplay?

You can always choose to spice things up with a role play costume of your choice. 

How often should I roleplay with my partner?

If you and your partner really enjoy erotic roleplay, you should indulge in it as much as you  please. 


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