How to Use a Vibrator: 5 Tips for Beginners
Vibrators can be a little intimidating at first. There are so many types. Should you get that funny-looking rabbit one or a bullet vibrator? And how do you use them?
Buying your first sex toy, however, can be freeing. After all, you are investing in your own pleasure. So use these tips to figure out what toys fit your needs... and you!
Self-Exploration with the Right Gadgets
1. The Right Vibrators
For a beginner, a rabbit vibrator or rechargeable bullet vibrator could be a good option. The former will help you to experience so-called ‘blended’ orgasms (i.e. simultaneous vaginal and clitoral orgasms), but don’t get hung up on having to achieve anything.
Its shaft is designed to stimulate your G-spot, while the ears are for your clitoris. It rose to fame after inspiring a memorable Sex and the City episode, and became a favourite among women worldwide for inspiring some toe-curling orgasms.
Apart from this, you can also try bullet vibrators designed for our female readers. This is an inexpensive sex toy staple, and every woman should own at least one (or two).
Tip: Our huge collection of rabbit vibrators is unmatched. The UltraZone Lyla Rechargeable Multi-Speed Rabbit Vibe could be a good option for a beginner for an amazing combined and penetrative stimulation.
3. Keep Your Toy Juiced-Up
Nothing kills the mood more than a dead battery! So, make sure that your toy is juiced up and ready to use. If it’s battery-operated, always use fresh batteries. If it’s rechargeable, make sure it’s fully charged. No one wants to feel the disappointment of a dying toy when the only morte you want is the petite variety.
Tip: Try the Satisfyer Mr. Rabbit Luxury Vibrator if you wish to experience some lovely sensations in your love spots! And with this one around, you won’t have to worry about running out of battery life!
4. Explore Your Body
You likely already know what makes you feel good, whether it’s your clitoris, nipples, G-spot, anus or any combination thereof. Choose your toy accordingly.
If your toy of choice is a bullet vibe, start with the lowest setting. Stimulate yourself lightly with your fingers and some lube before pressing the bullet to your clitoris – oh so gently at first. Experiment to see what works for you.
Tip: Try this Classic Chic Curve vibrator for some lovely feels in some lovely spots. This one is soft to the touch, has eight powerful vibration patterns, and is contoured and angled to reach all your thrill spots with ease.
5. Remember Your Real Goal
As you start exploring with your toy, don’t expect to reach the big ‘O’ right away. Focus on feeling good instead. Remember, your ultimate goal is pleasure, in whatever form.
Tip: Add a little something extra. This could be a good lotion or lube, or even sexy lingerie, which will instantly lift your mood and make you feel good about your body. The Sweet Retreat kimono could be a good option!
