For men, masturbation is learned quietly and privately. (No one wants their parents barging in after all when you’re ‘busy’.)
But male masturbation can be much more than just jerking off. And although mostly a private activity, it can also be part of partnered sex. And the variety of men’s masturbation devices available comes in handy — no pun intended — during these times. Most importantly, masturbation is a healthy way to deal with anxiety.
My Journey with Masturbation
True, male masturbation doesn’t require any external toy or device. But a masturbator for men can definitely make the process a lot more fun. Like many men, I always felt my hand was enough. But then I discovered male masturbators online and thought of giving them a try.
Here’s what I learned from my experience:
- Practice Makes Perfect
If you want your penis to be predictable within the confines of a sexual relationship, regular practice is a must. The fact that I masturbate made getting an erection with my girlfriend that much easier. Consider masturbation, then, a form of physical therapy or exercise which helps maintain your penis’s proper function.
- Patience Is Key
When I started researching male masturbators online, I was overwhelmed with options. Finally, I placed an order for a stroker. ‘Our’ first time didn’t go too well (where have I heard that before?) because I found it too tight. I was a little disheartened but didn’t give up. So, my advice to those new to sex toys is to be patient.
- Experimenting Never Hurts (Unless It Does, Which It Shouldn’t!)
I am writing about masturbation, but that doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy sex with my partner and my girlfriend knows I masturbate with toys. In fact, we often use them during sex. My cock ring, for example, has been a real boon for both of us as it gets me that much harder, and the delayed ejaculation has made my orgasms pretty amazing. My girlfriend also uses prostate massagers on me, so a bit of experimentation with masturbators has only made me realize how much more fun sex can be.
3 Best Masturbation Toys (In My Opinion)
As much as traditional masturbation is fine, using male masturbators can make the job easier and better. I have tried several kinds of sex toys for men and all of them have only made sex more intense. So, if you are at least a little bit adventurous, like me, here are my three favourite masturbators, which every man (I think) should own.1. A Fleshlight (Stroker)
Fleshlight is arguably the best-known brand of so-called ‘stroker’ toys. It’s one of the best-selling types of toys for men and can maximize your masturbatory pleasure.
There are several styles of Fleshlight modelled after popular porn stars. Add a good quality water-based lube, and you’re good to go. And the best part is that there is a Fleshlight for every fantasy, whether you prefer her mouth, butt, or pussy.2. A Prostate Massager
If you are looking for a totally different and unique sensation, a prostate massager is a must-have. These massagers are angled in such a way as to stimulate the prostate. The result is a mind-blowing orgasm. If you are new to prostate stimulation, a simple yet effective vibrating prostate massager like this one is all you need.3. A Mega Masturbator
Mega masturbators are generally made with lifelike Fanta Flesh which makes the experience all the more fun and real. These masturbators feel soft and feel like a real woman. I bought one two years back and was impressed by the kind of pleasure it (and an adequate amount of lube) offered. Here are a few options to choose from to make masturbation that much more fun.
My Road to Sexual Bliss
When we’re horny, men aren’t always able to articulate what we need in order to feel pleasure. This can also be due to most couples’ lack of communication skills. However, masturbation, especially with toys, helped me understand what my body needs. Masturbation, therefore, is about more than just a quick release. It has helped improve my communication skills with my girlfriend.
Believe it or not, guys have more than one erogenous zone, and masturbation with these men’s masturbation devices has helped me realize which other parts feel good being touched. Today, I can say that I’m much more confident about my body and its pleasure points.